A few weeks ago I went to a support group for people with the BRCA mutation or a family history of cancer. It was put on by a great national non-profit organization called 'Force'. I don't know why I have been resistant to support groups up until now. The thought of going although seemed like an ok idea, in the end used to make me shake my head and say, "No-that's not for me, I'm not the 'talk it out in group' type personality." I'm not sure why I am like this but it seems to be a strong personality trait I have had since I was little. I am happy to say I got over myself. I went to a meeting and was surprised with how the experience effected me in a positive way. I was surrounded by a group of woman of all ages, with this invisible common ground that was effecting us each in different ways and stages. It was both an informative and a compassionate meeting. I was left with information about doctors, what to expect after a double mastectomy, reconstruction options, made new friends and really just took in each and every one's story. Although it was a lot to take in, I didn't realize until now how thirsty I was for a group just like this. I don't know when I will be going to the next meeting but I do take comfort in knowing it is out there for me when I need it.
The next 'Force' meeting in Southern California is February 17th. You can go to the website for more information. www.facingourrisk.org
If you find yourself resisting something that you know will be good for you, like I was doing, then ask yourself why. Is it because stepping out of that comfortable box you are in makes you feel uncomfortable? If so then I say embrace it and step out. One small action can possibly be just what you need to get the ball rolling in your life for the positive. You never know how it will effect you or how you could be the inspiration that another may be looking for.
Force is FORCE is the only national nonprofit organization devoted to hereditary breast and ovarian cancer. Our mission includes support, education, advocacy, awareness, and research specific to hereditary breast and ovarian cancer. Our programs serve anyone with a BRCA mutation or a family history of cancer.
